Everyone stumbles upon in life. It’s adulthood that is hard to handle. When we slowly become adults we don’t see it coming. Some people never become adults, I’m not sure if they are the lucky ones. Some people doesn’t let theirselves to become one. Those people are the ones always have or find someone to look out for them. Some of us lost the people who look out for us very early. And some of us gain the people to look out for, very early. That’s what makes us adults. Being out there alone, try to handle every single obstacle by ourselves, dont have any shoulder we %100 trust that we can cry on, that’s what called to be an adult. Based on this brainstorm, I spouse not everone’s life is equally hard. But like the buddah said without pain there is no growth. We should learn to embrace it, instead of avoiding it.